Friday, August 31, 2012

A Long over Due Birth Story

Frank's due date was July 2, 2011. Well at my 39 week appointment the kid hadn't even dropped yet. Also, I was not even dilated. Not even a little bit.

So we scheduled an appointment with the OB for the 5th to check amniotic fluid and progress. When I went in they put me on the monitor and I was having some contractions, none I could feel,but I could see them on the machine. After the ultra sound I was informed my fluid was low so we would be headed to to the hospital after the appointment. I would be induced. At this point I really did not care. I wanted Frank out. I just always felt after he reached full term, that he was safer out than in.

We ran a few errands before we went to the hospital. I went to Target for some granny panties because I had heard they are a good thing to have on hand after childbirth. I also bought a book, a night gown, and a salted pretzel because I knew it might be a long time before I ate again.

I got to the hospital at around 10:30. I was given my first dose of misoprostal while I was still in the triage area. Eventually, I was moved to a labor and delivery room, sometime around 12 in the afternoon. Time frames get fuzzy after that.

I got another dose of misoprostal around 2pm because when they checked me I was barely dilated. I was having fairly manageable contractions at this point. I did fall asleep only to wake up because I got in controllable shakes. The nurse said that was normal. At some point they started giving me magnesium sulfate because I had severe preeclampsia.

I remember the resident coming to check me at some point and telling me I was only 1.5 cm dilated. She explained to me that if I didn't show progress soon I would get a balloon catheter, my water broken,and Pitocin. I asked when I could get an epidural and they said at four centimeters.This is where things got interesting.

I fell asleep after the resident left, but not before I checked the clock and it registered that I had been in that room for almost 15 hours. I remember thinking half asleep, "They are gonna do all that stuff to me and then I get me epidural." It wasn't that I was in pain. It was just I was so sick of that room. Well, I woke up from that sleep in a blind panic. Joe said I looked like a caged animal. I made him call for the nurse and asked to be able to walk the hall. She told me that I couldn't because I was being induced. I flipped out and took the monitors off of me and threatened to rip out my IV. I was claustrophobic and could not even verbalized what I needed at that point. I think they gave me an Ambien to calm be down and help me sleep.

The doctor came in a few hours later and I still was not very dilated. So they gave me the balloon catheter. Then sometime after that my water was broken and the Pitocin was started. I got my epidural at three centimeters because of my freak out.

The epidural worked for a while. Although I started feeling some pressure. The nurse said it meant I was progressing. After awhile, the epidural wore off on my right side but the contractions were still manageable. Well, for me anyway. My sister was in the room during one and ran out crying.

Progressing my foot! Almost thirty hours later, I was only four and a half centimeters dilated and Frank hadn't even descended. the doctor said enough was enough and said it would be best if I got a c-section. And I swear I heard a choir of angels sing at that point. I was so relieved that I wouldn't have to sit in that room and having all these things done only to make very little progress.

They had to find some scrubs for Joe. The coverall thing they gave him was only a medium. Joe is 6'4. Frank was born at 6:16 pm.

Friday, August 24, 2012

Frank's Birthday and Birthday Party

Lucky boy, he smashed two cakes.  One on his actual day of birth, the other at his party. His party theme was traffic. I got all the printables for his party here.  It was so hot, we decided to have the party in the basement instead of outside.

Birthday candle. It goes up to 21 years. You burn it each year.  Joe and his brothers each had one.



Before

After




Table centerpieces
Filled with candy
              


Posterboard of all his monthly pictures





Loved the cake, but oops "yield" is spelled incorrectly










Thursday, August 9, 2012

If I Tweeted

Three women announced pregnancies on FB. At 8wks,6wks,and 5wks. #sillyfertiles

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

So Excited

I hadn't bought a bag besides my Skip Hop Studio since I found out I was pregnant with Frank. What was the point since the Studio is big enough to carry both my and Frank's stuff. But a few weeks ago I fell in love with a bag I saw in Aldo. However,with two upcoming vacations,it was out of my budget. Two days ago the price tag went down ten bucks. Even better, when I went to check out it was half off. Aldo had to mail it to me because they didn't have the color I wanted. Today, it was waiting for me on my doorstep.

Because I'm Still Recovering From My Vacations

And he is so darn cute. Also,although he still prefers to crawl,he is walking across rooms now.